
These days, I very rarely get into pissing contests with other bloggers or butt heads with commenters on other sites. Sure, some of it is having grown up and become a bit more of an adult. But most of it is due to the example of Brad (and those whom I met through him) showing me that there were real people on the other end of the line.
Even though I didn't know Brad Graham, this lesson hopefully becomes part of his enduring legacy moving forward; it's a lesson we could all stand to be reminded of every so often.
I strongly encourage you to read all of Anil Dash's remembrance of Graham; it's one of the most human and real I've seen.
7. Write to please just one person. If you open a window and make love to the world, so to speak, your story will get pneumonia.
Just before this blog moved here to Posterous, this was a commitment I made to myself. I either got over the writer's block and literal fear of writing/blogging that began to infect me earlier, or I stopped writing until I could. It was that simple.
So now, it's not about trying to please a wide audience, as it used to be. It's about writing for a single reader, and that's it. Not sure if my loyal readers have noticed any difference, but the traffic stats picked up almost instantly. And better yet, I feel much more at ease writing, because I don't feel pressure to make sense to an impossibly wide array of readers with widly varying opinions.
It is different living up here, among the real Obama voters—not like those posers down South who plastered an Obama/Biden '08 sticker to the back of their Hummer—the real kind, not the limp-wristed H2 that General Motors churned out like Rock Crack Cocaine for the masses of The Sopranos Compete Set owning, suburbanized short men.
It's funny how a sentence's beauty and poignancy so often go hand-in-hand.
I would like to take a moment of your time to announce something that I hope, over time, will become something rather successful.
As many of you know I write for clusterflock in addition to producing GF here. However, I've recently started another blog, called Unfiltered, that serves as my employer's blog. I want it to be everything most company blogs aren't: interesting, authentic, transparent, fresh, relevant, not boring. My goal is to make it worth reading on a daily basis, even if you aren't wholly interested in the consulting business, PeopleSoft or SaaS technology.
So, if you're inclined, stop on by. Tell others about it if you feel the prospective subject matter would be interesting. Grok the RSS if that's your thing. The kickoff post pretty much lays out what the blog will and will not be.
Thanks. Have fun. You guys rule.